June1
So our patio project is more than on its way to completion! Chris and I have been dreaming & talking about this day for YEARS. We used to have a beautiful backyard with green healthy grass when we first moved in – until our month long trip to Europe in 2005 – much grass DIED while away. And it’s taken us years to get grass to grow back there. Now with an energetic toddler that always wants to play ‘at-slide’, it was for sure time to do something drastic. Thankfully, we were able to give ourselves this reward due to our Dave Ramsey budget lifestyle. With paying off both our cars early this year – we thought, what a good reward to ourselves (and happy birthday and happy father’s day to Chris?) to build the patio – and then get back on Dave Ramsey envelope system track.
Thursday began Day 1. Chris ordered the rock, which was delivered the SAME DAY. What an overwhelming feeling. We began digging up dirt – we had so much space that was unleveled – and would require a lot of work to level out. Seems that it wouldn’t take long to do, but really takes almost an entire afternoon. By end of Day 1, we had outlined our area and dug up existing holes & grass & dug ¼ of the needed trench for the retaining wall (yes, everyone, I did this all by myself!) End time: 11:00 pm.
Friday began Day 2. Chris realized we needed more supplies, I forget which ones…sand maybe? While Tatum napped, Chris finished up the trench for the rest of the retaining wall & laid 3 levels of brick & mortar on the right side of the patio. Sergio & Mike (Amanda’s dad) stopped by to see our progress & give thoughts. They had built a similar patio last year. We were on the right track for the most part (and doing ok for rookies), so that was a confidence boost. We grabbed a quick dinner after I got home from work & got right to work. By 10:30 pm, we had finished most of the 3 layers of retaining wall & called it a night.
Saturday began Day 3. Again, we needed a few more supplies! We headed to Dripping Springs & the guy gave us the rest of the rock for free (it was a very little amount, so nice of him). We spent the majority of the afternoon leveling out dirt (with Chris making more trips than I can count to pick up dirt from a nearby area of ‘public dirt). I’m totally forgetting now what happened because my days are running together.
By the late afternoon, we knew we were ready to begin the next process of adding the layers of sand, then sand/cement mix before laying the rocks. This is where Russell Boyd’s wisdom (and Ileah’s vocal direction) came in to save the day! RB has experience with this sort of project and they volunteered their Saturday night to our backyard. A shock & super nice surprise.
Ileah, Tatum, and I went to buy 1,400 lbs of sad (20 bags, 70lb each) at Home Depot. When we returned, the guys were playing Tetris with the rocks – so I jumped in, and Ileah brought back each bag of sand, 1 by 1, on a wheel barrel. Strong chic. By 11:00 pm, we had layered ¼ of the patio with dirt, then sand, then sand/cement mix, then ROCK! We watered & let it set for the night. Our patio was actually coming together and making sense.
Sunday began Day 4. The morning time we had reserved for house church – several random occurrences happened with a few of our friends, so the morning ended up being extremely relaxing with us cleaning the house (yes, it was a disaster, the cleanliness felt soooo nice). Chris needed (again) to go get more sand & dirt, and I was not feeling the best. Tatum and I napped while Chris did his thing.
I jumped back in the game at 4:00 pm ready to get our next section completed before the weekend ended. I had really hoped that the whole patio would be completed by Sunday night – but with all the work it takes to do one of these suckers, I knew that was an unrealistic expectation. Chris and I put about 18 buckets (is that right?) of dirt on our 2nd section and I began leveling out with a rake.
RB & Ileah showed up a little bit later, just in time for us to lay the layer of sand. I never thought it’d take 6 hours to lay sand, level out, then lay sand/cement mix, level it out, and then begin putting rocks back in. Adjusting the rocks so that they are level is what takes so much work. But by 10:30 pm – section two was watered & completed!
For some reason, I was not able to sleep! You’d think I’d be more than exhausted by this time. Maybe my mind was in patio mode. I honestly contemplated staying up to watch Mall Cop that Nicole had brought over, but I knew Chris was ready for bed. I think by 1:00 am, I was fast asleep.
So, hopefully next Saturday will be the day that it’s completed! We have 1 more section to add dirt (literally tons of dirt), sand, mix, and then readjust the rocks. Can’t wait to have a BBQ so we all can enjoy it together! PS – I did not wash my hair since yesterday (but yes, I have showered), and it is so disgusting today. Even in a pony tail.